[영어회화] What is pursue of your relationship?

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Hello everyone,

 

As times goes by, my ego is strengthening. So, I realize that I have different ideas and values with old friends.

I'm the youngest guy in this meeting, So I want to know how you guys deal with this kind of problem.

 

 

 

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1. The balance game, There are two appointments at that same time.

Different values but an old convenient friend VS simillar values but a new awkward friend. Who will you meet?

- Actually this is easy question to me. If I would be stuck this situation, I definitely choose person who is awkward but has simillar values.

during my entire life, I proudly said I've met really bunch of people around the world. and I've made many friends.

When I look back my friends who is remained in my friends list. they all have simillar values.

also I love person who is simillar like be attractive. they are really tempting to me.

 

If we have different value of life or goal, then we can't keep talking what we are looking at in future or present.

for example, I met some few people who is married. When I met them we talked about baby or family except for me.

sometimes I felt I was just listener who couldn't share my experience.

then sadly I felt bored and want to leave as soon as possible. So If you think times is really precious to you, then you should spend your time with who you want to be with.

 

 

2. What is your human relationship that you pursue?

- It's really difficult question to me, maybe sharing my memories.

unfortunately I'm really bad at memorizing. so I guess that my head regularly delete my memory even though this is really valuable in my life.

To overcome this situation, I tried taking picture a lot If I can, and look it up to remind me of that.

or I meet my friends who can share our experience.

when we talked about our past or good days, my brain start working to clearly look back that time.

I think this is relationship. Through this process, we can keep memorizing our golden days forever

 

 

 

3. Let's suppose that you are harmed by relations. 

- Have you heard about INFJ's relationship in website? 

I might be same as them. I have limited tolerance in my mind. It is not really shallow but not much deep.

If somebody hit me my back, then I will cut him off in my life with silence.

I'm not noisy person, just realize that I need to cut him off in my life and slowly stop meeting or contact.

That's why I have few friends in friends list.

 

 

 

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